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DawnD · 12-11-2009, 07:45 PM

I agree with the fact that if there is abuse, you need to get you and your child out. No matter if you are man or woman you can't expose your children to that crap. I believe in purely thinking about my kids. Do you want your child growing up thinking this is okay??

I don't know much about your wife, but she seems to be a bit out of whack for one reason or another, but it is possible that you being in contact with the ex isn't helping either. I would cut ties for at least a couple of months, try to sort this all out without any outside influences, get a counselor for your wife and someone who can do anger management with her. Do I sometimes wish I could smack my husband? Yeah. Do I?? Noooo. Its never okay.

12-11-2009, 07:45 PM	#7 (permalink)
DawnD Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 378	Re: 5 years, 1 child and oh, no.... I agree with the fact that if there is abuse, you need to get you and your child out. No matter if you are man or woman you can't expose your children to that crap. I believe in purely thinking about my kids. Do you want your child growing up thinking this is okay?? I don't know much about your wife, but she seems to be a bit out of whack for one reason or another, but it is possible that you being in contact with the ex isn't helping either. I would cut ties for at least a couple of months, try to sort this all out without any outside influences, get a counselor for your wife and someone who can do anger management with her. Do I sometimes wish I could smack my husband? Yeah. Do I?? Noooo. Its never okay.