Re: Physical intimacy in marriage
First I agree with you. My wife and I kiss often maybe 50-100 times in a day. We regular hug, cuddle and always hold hand when we are walking together outside the house. It is an important part of our relationship. We have a great sex life by-the-way.
But all of that is built. Do you make it a point when you leave r come home to kiss her? That is an important thing. It might seem trivial but in the long run it gets you where you want to go.
Give a hug and a thank you often. Nice words and gestures can't hurt and often help.
Watch tv and movies together and use that time to cuddle. Have your arm around her and let her use you as a pillow.
If she complains about her day give her a foot rub.
For mothers day I let my wife go to a foot spa paid by me while I watched the kids and got caught up on all the house work.
We have "dates" every week because that is important to our relationship.
DOn't jump in and try to do all the advise you get all at once but rather get one thing going for a while before going to the next step. Never settle back to the way things were.
Get good communication going.
draconis
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