slickplant35

No he doesn't want to add to the marriage. You know like every couple out there you have good and bad times. Lately they are only the bad. I can't see how he sees things like not wanting to help in supporting my daughter and I. Whatever he is doing is good enough. His business being slow and not looking elsewhere to help make our lives easier just makes me angry because there is no reason for it. I saw in alot of your postings about the kissing and just making each other feel loved and important well he never comes home and kisses me I would be lucky some days if I get a hello. He doesn't get out of the recliner long enough for anything. Flowers yeah right no flowers only when it's our anniversary and then it's not special because there is a cause for them. I may sound off the walls, but I just feel that I wasted my whole life waiting for a change how stupid was I????? He has this thing about me controlling him and acting like his mommy. Well he is so irresponsible that if I don't do certain things they wouldn't get done. Last year the Dr's thought he had bladder cancer and he had a lot of tests and was running back and forth for Dr appts and he never called and made one appt, wanted me to go to every appt I ran to every test he never complained about me being the mommy then. He complains when it doesn't suit him. I am just so tired of all of this but so scared.