Re: need some female insight, my wife stopped wearing her ring
It sounds like you are gonna have to do some serious soul searching, and if its possible I would ask an individual counselor to help if you need it. They can help you sort out your thoughts and help you find out why you act the way you do.
For me, I would have to see the progress. I would need to see how much you care and that you are taking steps to fix this. Is there any way you can do that? I know she doesn't want to see you for a few weeks, so nows the time to start making some change that she can see! And honestly, you will have to try and make sure she knows the change is permanent, not just until she comes back. That might be the hard part.