InDeep

I'm in a bad mood today because my wife and I are in a similar spot, so I say 'divorce her.' What is it about women, that they want comfort and support, security and normalcy, then come to take it for granted, then get bored with it? Divorce her now, save yourself the hours, days, weeks, and months of pain, sitting in the passenger seat while she drives aimlessly about your relationship.

Ok. I feel better now (slightly) (not really). The constructive thing I'll say is that there's only one thing you can control and that's your actions. Not your thoughts, not your feelings, and certainly not hers. Don't do or say anything that is intentionally harmful to yourself, to her, or to your relationship. Resist spite and defensiveness and be the honorable and confident man you want to be (that I want to be).

Best, InDeep