Re: when do you know it's truly over
I can't say I don't agree with these other folks. Wich scares me because there are alot of simalaritys between my behaviors and the person you are describing. My poor wife of 6 years I feel horible and am starting to cry for you and her. I do want to change, I just never took the steps as much as my wife begged me to. It is just been sense yesterday that I am actually trying. It took her to make me move out to realize the true impact of the situation. What i'm saying is maybe thats the kick in the but he needs, move out and straighten up and then maybe you can come back! I know everyone is different. I know its scary, and I feel your pain from the side of doing similer things to my wife, except the lack of nurture, It kills me to see the hurt in her eye's. I truly hope you can figure out if you need to move on or not before it damages you. I say good luck to you. It never seems like it in the moment of pain but things always find there right place if you belive.
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