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jessi · 12-22-2009, 11:13 AM

Boy this sounds a little dangerous for you, he seems a little over the top, he needs to go back to the doctor and figure out if his meds are working like they should. Maybe tell him that the door is not closed, if he finds the help he needs you would be willing to stick by him. He needs to work on himself before he drags you and the kids through hell.....I'm sure he is a different man when he is more in control...don't give up, get him the help he needs and assure him you want to help him through this, even if you don't get back together he will be a better man for your children....
good luck and keep hoping for the best, work on yourself as well
I'm sending a hug your way......

12-22-2009, 11:13 AM	#2 (permalink)
jessi Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: canada Posts: 796	Re: breaking up after 20 years together Boy this sounds a little dangerous for you, he seems a little over the top, he needs to go back to the doctor and figure out if his meds are working like they should. Maybe tell him that the door is not closed, if he finds the help he needs you would be willing to stick by him. He needs to work on himself before he drags you and the kids through hell.....I'm sure he is a different man when he is more in control...don't give up, get him the help he needs and assure him you want to help him through this, even if you don't get back together he will be a better man for your children.... good luck and keep hoping for the best, work on yourself as well I'm sending a hug your way......