dscowgirl

UPDATE. He has placed some of our items online to sell. One I am ok with and the other I wasn't and I told him no. He was outraged and was basically harassing me. After he got over his anger he called. He realized I am not backing down and giving him his easy way out. He has put me through alot and sorry he needs to work just like me and not sell off everything just so he has money. He still hasn't admitted about the girl. Basically, yesterday he called after awhile since he was alone and driving here in town to talk. Alot of self pitty stuff. I did tell him I took myself out of my shoes and put them in his to actually see how he felt on alot of issue. I told him that I actually feel that our time apart has been a good thing. If there was any chance of both of us agreeing to make an attempt for mending I know I could make it better from my side. He straight up said he knows it wouldn't work, and no he hadn't put himself in my shoes. He isn't willing right now. He's running here and there running low on money and self esteme. I did try and lift him up when we talked but told him he has to look inside himself. He says there is hate and anger inside. He has pushed all friends and family away. I haven't talked to him today, I want to text him but it all seems like a game of who's got the best of who right now. I do feel he is playing with my emotions and dangling me since I do have control over his phone and other things that are his lifeline to work and her. Any thoughts??