| | Re: what to do when your wife wont go to counseling
Change yourself, and the relationship will change. Not necessarily the ways you think you want, but if you become more mature and responsible--with yourself, your kids, etc.--she'll notice. It takes time--she may not "trust" the changes are hear to stay. Furthermore, as you change, you may start to feel differently about her--and that's ok, too. Good luck!