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Originally Posted by draconis
MrsLV~Keep in mind everyone has differences of opinion. I have met some people that merely looking at a member of the opposite sex for more then eye contact is cheating because you may think lust in your mind of heart. Others may allow much more. It is all opinion and you should be careful that your S/O knows what you expect.
draconis
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I can't believe that anyone that is sain would feel that making more than eye contact with someone from the opposite sex would be considered cheating-that's obsurd.
But whenever you give someone else what you should be giving your spouse, that's wrong
. Call it what you like.
And that's why I think emotional relationships with someone else in a way that is disrespectful to your relationship, emailing/texting anything inappropriate that is disrespectful to your relationship, showing/sending anyone other than your s/o nude photos of yourself, making out/having sex with anyone other than your s/o, etc. all falls into "cheating".
It's one thing if you have an open relationship
-but if this is a "monogamous" relationship
(The practice or condition of having a single sexual partner during a period of time.
The practice or condition of being married to only one person at a time.
The practice of marrying only once in a lifetime.)
, then there should be no confusion
as to what should and should not take place.
From what the original post suggested, the "cyberspace" activities were not allowed...hense, it's a no-brainer. Plus, as for my comments, I did state what I expected in my own marriage, but also gave a general heartfelt suggestion of forgiveness, rememberence, and therapy. Draconis, where did I go wrong with that?
