Re: can someone give me some advice please.......
I think very few people can say their spouce is 100% of everything. I love my wife and our marriage but I can say that she isn't good at helping around the house. Oh well, I do most of it and I am fine with it.
As for this other guy. It doesn't matter if you slept with him or not you have had an emotional affair. It takes away energy that should go into the marriage. What is worse beside is that you put yourself in a situation where you might cheat.
Lose the guy and cut all ties to him. Put an honest effort into your marriage. Open up communication with your husband.
draconis
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