Originally Posted by Dreaded_Soulja
Years ago, when couples got married... they were together until death. Marriage actually meant something. Now, it seems that marriage has been cheapened and that the meaning has been lost. It's become way to easy to back out of a commitment with little care or thought. One can have a bad day, and decide, "Okay, I'm outta here!" There is no more fight or struggle to make such relationships work. Everything is disposable... including marriage.
Sad isn't it? But true. I never dreamed I would be in the position I am in now, never thought it would happen to me, but life happened and everything just got in the way and people are so ready to throw in the towel so quickly and where does the leave us? We're the people that want to pick up the pieces that want it to work b/c some people actually believe in marriage, yet know it's almost a game. Do this don't do this. Say that maybe they will come back. etc, etc.
Somedays it feels like their are very few options for such a hard time as this.
Keep your head up. Maybe that's really the only option.