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yen · 10-06-2007, 10:22 AM

Yes it would make it wrong but he has all my passwords and can get on my laptop at anytime and I don't get upset when someone else get's on it or walks up behind me. And close windows or wait for him to go to bed or work and fuss at the kids for being behind me when on here or any other site because I don't go to any that the kids theirself can't go to. And I don't send pic of myself to this site I have no need for any phone numbers from this site because I talk on here openly for all to see I'm not looking for one person. I do not have pic of any of you on this forum saved to my laptop I don't sat here day and night or in yahoo chat. And I still do thing with the kids and take them places they don't ask him or try to talk to him if he on the computer they know he gets pissed. And will tell them he is waiting on someone to get back to him or walk outside to answer my cell phone or get pissed if one of them ask for it to look at the pic on it. Because all the pic on mine is of them he doesn't have any of them and on the computer he has pic of cars,streo but none them or the family but three of her I did not have a pic of a rose saved in my cell that another man has sent me. Since we had the computer he doesn't go anywhere with us bcause he always on the computer the first thing he does when he gets up is turn it on and stay on all day and night. My laptop does not own me it is turn on maybe 2 hours a day if at all he can not go a day without the computer. And if we do get him out of house hes ready to go after 30 min. so he can get back on as soon as he comes thru the doors. He see nothing wrong with it and if the kids say someting to him about it he's mad at them because he tell's our son he stay on his to much and wouldn't get out of the house and do anything but our son tells him so you never get off and won't do anything with us he's mad the rest of the day but on the computer. My son don't understand why he gets on to him for something he does himself all day. They have problem over this all the time to the point that my son doesn't want him to go anywhere with us. Just like last night I took him to a football game and try to get him to ask his dad to go and he said no I don't want him to go besides he on the computer he'll say the same thing he said last week. Which was no I don't give a s**t for that I'm busy go on now what kind of answer is that to a 13 year old. And that is what they get all the time. If my faimly has a get together he won't go the kids and myself go but if it is his family he thinks we should all go or it makes him look bad. So I guess what I'm tring to say is he picks the computer over us evertime. We as a family only go and do what he wants if its something I want to do or the kids it ends me taking them by myself. Both of them play sports I go to all their games and see that they get to and from pratice, they don't even ask him anymore to come because they know he on the computer and they say thats all he cares about. So what do you do?

10-06-2007, 10:22 AM	#14 (permalink)
yen Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 10	Re: Unfaithful? Yes it would make it wrong but he has all my passwords and can get on my laptop at anytime and I don't get upset when someone else get's on it or walks up behind me. And close windows or wait for him to go to bed or work and fuss at the kids for being behind me when on here or any other site because I don't go to any that the kids theirself can't go to. And I don't send pic of myself to this site I have no need for any phone numbers from this site because I talk on here openly for all to see I'm not looking for one person. I do not have pic of any of you on this forum saved to my laptop I don't sat here day and night or in yahoo chat. And I still do thing with the kids and take them places they don't ask him or try to talk to him if he on the computer they know he gets pissed. And will tell them he is waiting on someone to get back to him or walk outside to answer my cell phone or get pissed if one of them ask for it to look at the pic on it. Because all the pic on mine is of them he doesn't have any of them and on the computer he has pic of cars,streo but none them or the family but three of her I did not have a pic of a rose saved in my cell that another man has sent me. Since we had the computer he doesn't go anywhere with us bcause he always on the computer the first thing he does when he gets up is turn it on and stay on all day and night. My laptop does not own me it is turn on maybe 2 hours a day if at all he can not go a day without the computer. And if we do get him out of house hes ready to go after 30 min. so he can get back on as soon as he comes thru the doors. He see nothing wrong with it and if the kids say someting to him about it he's mad at them because he tell's our son he stay on his to much and wouldn't get out of the house and do anything but our son tells him so you never get off and won't do anything with us he's mad the rest of the day but on the computer. My son don't understand why he gets on to him for something he does himself all day. They have problem over this all the time to the point that my son doesn't want him to go anywhere with us. Just like last night I took him to a football game and try to get him to ask his dad to go and he said no I don't want him to go besides he on the computer he'll say the same thing he said last week. Which was no I don't give a s**t for that I'm busy go on now what kind of answer is that to a 13 year old. And that is what they get all the time. If my faimly has a get together he won't go the kids and myself go but if it is his family he thinks we should all go or it makes him look bad. So I guess what I'm tring to say is he picks the computer over us evertime. We as a family only go and do what he wants if its something I want to do or the kids it ends me taking them by myself. Both of them play sports I go to all their games and see that they get to and from pratice, they don't even ask him anymore to come because they know he on the computer and they say thats all he cares about. So what do you do?