Re: My husband cheated. Now what?
I hope I'm not crazy in saying this....but ever since I found out...our sex life has increased 100%. It was never bad before, but wow, it's great. The last thing I pictured myself doing was engaging in any physical contact with my husband because I was so angry with him, but one night I was laying in bed crying and talking about it with him, the next minute we were kissing and then moved on from there. I'm positive it was just pure emotions that led to the first time, but it hasn't stopped since.
The incident...as I'm now calling it...definatly fueled something back into our marriage. I have some pretty strong mixed emotions about that.
I hope I'm not alone in this. To be honest, it really doesn't make a whole lot of sense in my head. I don't get how after such a huge betrayal, and a loss of trust, that the sex could get better. I would assume that I wouldn't want any part of sex with him...but there hasn't been a day since I've found out that we haven't engaged in some sort of sexual contact.
Anyone else in the same boat?
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