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carmaenforcer · 07-15-2008, 05:57 PM

If you guy have only been married for 8 months then he might just see this as a way out, I mean you did mess up, but like you said not as bad as carnal infidelity.
If he's not talking divorce yet and seems willing to at least try and stay married, then you have a chance to prove to him that you are not that person that can hurt him.
It's hard to trust again after someone has done you wrong.
The type of lie may not matter to some as much as the fact that it is a lie.
Complete openness is the most important way to start, communication, humility, patience and an understanding of how much you are wiling to go through for what you have done is important too.

07-15-2008, 05:57 PM	#5 (permalink)
carmaenforcer Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 152	Re: I need a man's advice If you guy have only been married for 8 months then he might just see this as a way out, I mean you did mess up, but like you said not as bad as carnal infidelity. If he's not talking divorce yet and seems willing to at least try and stay married, then you have a chance to prove to him that you are not that person that can hurt him. It's hard to trust again after someone has done you wrong. The type of lie may not matter to some as much as the fact that it is a lie. Complete openness is the most important way to start, communication, humility, patience and an understanding of how much you are wiling to go through for what you have done is important too.