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AZMOMOFTWO · 07-15-2008, 11:33 PM

How about if you write down everything you do for the household, including driving carpools, paying bills, etc. Then write down his responsibilities, be fair, include any yardwork etc. Then show him and ask him to make corrections. Maybe he will then see all that you do. Tell him you need to have a break, and also the two of you need a night together. Take advantage of babysitting time and tell him that you want the two of you to go out once a week if possible, doesn't have to be expensive, could be a walk in the park. Not only are you not getting a break yourself (and I know a SAHM is a full time job) but you have no time together, you are losing connection and pretty soon you may fall out of love. I hope this helps!

07-15-2008, 11:33 PM	#2 (permalink)
AZMOMOFTWO Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 306	Re: Tired of getting upset How about if you write down everything you do for the household, including driving carpools, paying bills, etc. Then write down his responsibilities, be fair, include any yardwork etc. Then show him and ask him to make corrections. Maybe he will then see all that you do. Tell him you need to have a break, and also the two of you need a night together. Take advantage of babysitting time and tell him that you want the two of you to go out once a week if possible, doesn't have to be expensive, could be a walk in the park. Not only are you not getting a break yourself (and I know a SAHM is a full time job) but you have no time together, you are losing connection and pretty soon you may fall out of love. I hope this helps!