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MrsLV · 10-06-2007, 12:44 PM

Jennifer, you're not being a baby-he's being abusive. I'm sorry that this had to happen after-the-fact (after getting married). Was he like that prior to the wedding?
And spitting on someone is one of the nastiest, hateful things ANYONE could ever do to another human-it's a sign of disgust. Had it been me, I'd have been to the courthouse so fast to request an annulment, his head would spin. You are so young and could have a wonderful future ahead of you once you realize your self worth. If this man spit on you, then perhaps the next step will be to hit you; or worst. Not sure if you have kids yet or not, but you'd never want your kids to see their mother being spit on. These are things to consider. I truly hate to advocate divorce or separations-but I cannot begin to justify your husband's behavior.
Jennifer, I'm going to pray for you. I'm so sorry this happened to you, and I hope things get better.

10-06-2007, 12:44 PM	#2 (permalink)
MrsLV Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Georgia Posts: 57	Re: newlywed and not happy Jennifer, you're not being a baby-he's being abusive. I'm sorry that this had to happen after-the-fact (after getting married). Was he like that prior to the wedding? And spitting on someone is one of the nastiest, hateful things ANYONE could ever do to another human-it's a sign of disgust. Had it been me, I'd have been to the courthouse so fast to request an annulment, his head would spin. You are so young and could have a wonderful future ahead of you once you realize your self worth. If this man spit on you, then perhaps the next step will be to hit you; or worst. Not sure if you have kids yet or not, but you'd never want your kids to see their mother being spit on. These are things to consider. I truly hate to advocate divorce or separations-but I cannot begin to justify your husband's behavior. Jennifer, I'm going to pray for you. I'm so sorry this happened to you, and I hope things get better. __________________ Seek God BEFORE "all else fails", not WHEN "all else fails".