Nickii

Yeah I think you did the right thing by cutting off contact with the other guy. It is okay to have male friends while your married however I think the fact that you have noticed issues in your marriage is enough of a reason to stay away from this person till you work out where you are with your marriage and with yourself.

It is often the case when we start to feel a hole or something is missing or everything is not right, we often look for something or someone to make us feel better.

However in most cases it just makes it worse.

If your husband is a caring person like you say then sit down with him and talk about your needs and fears and then come up with solutions for each of them.

More open and honest communication may also stop a lot of the concerns you have.