827Aug

I really don't know what advice I can offer, but it sounds as though you've really been a supportive wife. My husband, too, got wierd when he turned 40. His behavior started out much like your husbands and just got worse. He's now 43 and moved out 3 months ago--he may as well just live on another planet. He says he still loves me but not in love with me. Perhaps you should try couple's counseling; we should have gone before our problem got soooo bad.

Hang in there!