Hi Precious,
Maybe you shouldn't be trying so hard and make him think about the fact he might lose you?
I have been doing much research on men and how they view their wives and how these affairs happen. What I have been reading is that the more we are wonderful, loving and nurturing, and do everything for our mates, sometimes the more we push them away because we are too available. Is it because man loves the conquest, the challenge to make him feel good about himself? At least this seems to be a part of it.
deconis, am I off on this? Maybe it depends on the type of man.
Maybe too much like mother...I am exploring this for my own marriage. Have I been too nice?