Originally Posted by trying2cope

I second everything that Blind has said. I am in the same position so I know how painful this can be. In my opinion (and my husband's), my husband is in a mid-life crisis too. I've done some reading on it, and from what I've read, it sounds like a VERY confusing place to be. I recommend reading as much as you can on the topic. That way you can understand what your husband is going through.

I can aslo relate to your mental and physical pain. I've probably lost 20 lbs in the last few months. Just remember that you need to focus on yourself so that you can be there for your kids. It has really helped me to keep busy with our son, doing more with my friends and doing more running.

Some days are easy than others. Try not to pressure your husband for a time frame to "fix things". That has been the hardest thing for me.

Best of luck.