Re: Procrastinating
The things I put off have more emotional attachments I suppose. Two things that bothered her right now, is that I left school to go back to work. I still have things at the school, and need to get them and pay them. It is going to be very hard for me to go back, and close that chapter. I am quitting something that I really enjoyed doing to better our home life. She wants the tools, as some are hers.
The other is financial. I put off making calls to people that I need to make arrangements with, which affects my credit. Finances are a very important issue with her, and I seem to put those things off until I have to get them taken care of.
In each case, I really just put them off because I don't want to have to deal with it. Its a defense mechanism from what counselors have told me. I have always kind of just accepted it as it is. If it's something she can't deal with, I want to work on it so she is happier. It wouldn't be fair to have her deal with those issues just because I couldn't, or didn't want to.
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