| | Re: need some thoughts
I guess it might be the plan who knows, he is so hard to read these days I don't know what the plan is, he isn't actually going out to look at any houses or apartments so I'm not sure how his plan to move out is actually going to work.
He did finally tell his family(big family) what his plans were by email, he is worried about what everyone will say I'm sure.
he just did this tonight, I've been waiting the date was suppose to be New Year's Day......maybe things will move faster now.
We have a financial deal already in place and guess what I'm keeping our dream house and my boys will stay with me when they are at home(they are both in university)
I have noticed it's not just me, he doesn't seem to be to interested in any responsibilties with the kids, the house, everything is falling on my shoulders at this point,
I think he just wants to be a single guy with no responsibility. and of course his little girlfriend on the side. Okay sounding a little bitter now....I think he is in some kind of mid life crisis now. He crys non stop, I've stopped now and he seems stuck in neutral.....but still claims he loves the other woman and wants out of our marriage.....