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cao428 · 07-18-2008, 10:06 PM

Hi 827Aug!

Wow that is great you found that leak! They never seem to appreciate what we do, do they? I know the whole year my husband was gone working in china, and I was home alone missing him and taking care of the properties/business plus working full time, commuting 2 hours each day, and taking care of the house, and kids & pets, not once did he thank me. Instead, he complained that I didn't fly over soon enough to visit him, and didn't send his medication timely enough, etc. I had to deal with an oil spill on the basement of one house (the oil tank let go), frozen pipes in one during the winter and the list goes on. Then all the time I am missing him and trying to stay connected, sending him loving emails, all while he was living in a gorgeous apt. and hiring the young girls to do things for him. Am I stupid or what?

My attorney told me that if I initiated a divorce, he would go after my husband for the legal fees, mainly because I have no money at all, and he is the one whom makes the large income.

I am the one that has been thinking of another (better) life. He will be returning soon, probably this week.

Does your husband know that about the legal fees and the divorce? He sounds manipulative like mine.

I was just watching 20/20, a show about sex in Amerca. There was an interesting segment on Monogamy. One guy on whom has become famous for his "bad boy" image and straight talk about men and cheating. He says men all are made for variety and are built to cheat. He says they never feel bad unless they get caught. Interesting, but I don't believe that's true. I think there are men out there that are completely monogomous. Any comments from any males out there?

Take care 827Aug! Sounds like you are doing all the right things.

07-18-2008, 10:06 PM	#33 (permalink)
cao428 Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: North East USA Posts: 288	Re: What to do when they won't come clean? Hi 827Aug! Wow that is great you found that leak! They never seem to appreciate what we do, do they? I know the whole year my husband was gone working in china, and I was home alone missing him and taking care of the properties/business plus working full time, commuting 2 hours each day, and taking care of the house, and kids & pets, not once did he thank me. Instead, he complained that I didn't fly over soon enough to visit him, and didn't send his medication timely enough, etc. I had to deal with an oil spill on the basement of one house (the oil tank let go), frozen pipes in one during the winter and the list goes on. Then all the time I am missing him and trying to stay connected, sending him loving emails, all while he was living in a gorgeous apt. and hiring the young girls to do things for him. Am I stupid or what? My attorney told me that if I initiated a divorce, he would go after my husband for the legal fees, mainly because I have no money at all, and he is the one whom makes the large income. I am the one that has been thinking of another (better) life. He will be returning soon, probably this week. Does your husband know that about the legal fees and the divorce? He sounds manipulative like mine. I was just watching 20/20, a show about sex in Amerca. There was an interesting segment on Monogamy. One guy on whom has become famous for his "bad boy" image and straight talk about men and cheating. He says men all are made for variety and are built to cheat. He says they never feel bad unless they get caught. Interesting, but I don't believe that's true. I think there are men out there that are completely monogomous. Any comments from any males out there? Take care 827Aug! Sounds like you are doing all the right things. Last edited by cao428; 07-19-2008 at 04:27 PM.