justean

i think you have to find the strength to leave.
it wont change. it doesnt sound like he wants to change.
my ex hubby left me with a £2000.00 debt and even after he left , he bought a car on finance and put it against our house. he was always a liar and a cheat.
its been 14 years since we split - i know he is still like it to this day.
i was just so relieved when i got him out. i just moved on because i had to.
i paid the debt. called the company for the car he had bought on finance and told them of my circumstances. i never heard from them again.
i married the first time when i was 21 ( bad mistake) but i learnt from it. you cannot regret it, because you cannot undo the past, but u can change your future. but thats up to u.
yes im only 36 (nearly). but i have a life now that i would never have had. i have had an amazing life despite what issues wil come up and they wil.
had i stayed to save the marriage. - well there was a destiny out there for me , that i wasnt meant to stay in that marriage.