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justean · 07-19-2008, 05:26 PM

coming from a scorned woman herself. i found out for myself. i played my own detective. you could survive it , but you will certainly be going through the emotional rollercoaster if you do tell her.
i actually feel for you. your guilt is putting you in tumoil.
but you know it was a mistake and hopefully you wont do it again.
or you wont be tempted again.
i found my hubby had a one night stand in april 08. yes i played detective, i kicked him out. trust is definately an issue.
but we have been together 13 yrs. but were working through it.
if your marriage is in a difficult phase now and as your early ,in your marriage - i think it would be a huge blow and u could lose her.
how much do you think you know her?
personally. and i am against my own morals. but if you really wont do it again. you have to let that night go away and move forward. dont tell her.
if something comes up in the future , you deal with it then.
this is not the right time.

07-19-2008, 05:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 1,250	Re: Premarrital Affair coming from a scorned woman herself. i found out for myself. i played my own detective. you could survive it , but you will certainly be going through the emotional rollercoaster if you do tell her. i actually feel for you. your guilt is putting you in tumoil. but you know it was a mistake and hopefully you wont do it again. or you wont be tempted again. i found my hubby had a one night stand in april 08. yes i played detective, i kicked him out. trust is definately an issue. but we have been together 13 yrs. but were working through it. if your marriage is in a difficult phase now and as your early ,in your marriage - i think it would be a huge blow and u could lose her. how much do you think you know her? personally. and i am against my own morals. but if you really wont do it again. you have to let that night go away and move forward. dont tell her. if something comes up in the future , you deal with it then. this is not the right time.