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justean · 07-20-2008, 02:21 PM

i liked your mail, you sound like me. but your real to.
look at what you have said to me again. your very strong. ok you have issues, tell me someone that doesnt .
think of it this way i bet they just have nothing else better to talk about. there own lives lack probably your gaining from your situation.
an example if i may - my hubby had a one night stand in april 08. but the issue here is , his mate who encouraged my really paraletic drunk hubby to go with this girl was actually gettin married 6 weeks later ( what a mate). i asure you although not in a blissful situation even prior to getin married, he hated my husband and i with the life that he had. he couldnt have me. so what was his next option , to wrap my hubby ( wally) around his every word and do his worst.
yes we split up for a while. but we are sorting things through.

i dont believe your trust level has plummeted.
you just get wise to others ppls antics. and as you know there really are some horrible ppl out there.
ppl can do the most bizarre things for the most bizarre of notions.
i.e this is not the first time i have had my hubbys mates try to split us up.
talking to ppl on a basic level is what we all should learn.
my mate in the 2 1/2 yrs of me knowing her has only just in the last 6 months given me details on her life.she sussed me out along time ago, but she stayed guarded. but thats my mate. fine by me.
but you know what, i know i can trust her.
how many ppl do you want to give your trust to.
mine is only given to a handful of mates and family. isnt that enough?

07-20-2008, 02:21 PM	#4 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 739	Re: setback i liked your mail, you sound like me. but your real to. look at what you have said to me again. your very strong. ok you have issues, tell me someone that doesnt . think of it this way i bet they just have nothing else better to talk about. there own lives lack probably your gaining from your situation. an example if i may - my hubby had a one night stand in april 08. but the issue here is , his mate who encouraged my really paraletic drunk hubby to go with this girl was actually gettin married 6 weeks later ( what a mate). i asure you although not in a blissful situation even prior to getin married, he hated my husband and i with the life that he had. he couldnt have me. so what was his next option , to wrap my hubby ( wally) around his every word and do his worst. yes we split up for a while. but we are sorting things through. i dont believe your trust level has plummeted. you just get wise to others ppls antics. and as you know there really are some horrible ppl out there. ppl can do the most bizarre things for the most bizarre of notions. i.e this is not the first time i have had my hubbys mates try to split us up. talking to ppl on a basic level is what we all should learn. my mate in the 2 1/2 yrs of me knowing her has only just in the last 6 months given me details on her life.she sussed me out along time ago, but she stayed guarded. but thats my mate. fine by me. but you know what, i know i can trust her. how many ppl do you want to give your trust to. mine is only given to a handful of mates and family. isnt that enough?