Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Anyone try "off weekends" prior to the big decision?

827Aug · 01-09-2010, 09:55 PM

Wow! Your title caught my eye! My estranged husband was having "off weekends" for the last 18 months that we were officially living together. He has carrying the girl friends on nice trips and partying it up. When he showed back up to the house on Sunday evenings, he was disgusting.... all hung-over and majorly SNORING on the couch. Needless to say I was pissed and things deteriorated!

If you and your husband truly want to try this approach, perhaps put down some ground rules. That is if you still have trust in the relationship (and he isn't lying). What else have you tried?

01-09-2010, 09:55 PM	#2 (permalink)
827Aug Moderator Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Southern USA Posts: 3,985	Re: Anyone try "off weekends" prior to the big decision? Wow! Your title caught my eye! My estranged husband was having "off weekends" for the last 18 months that we were officially living together. He has carrying the girl friends on nice trips and partying it up. When he showed back up to the house on Sunday evenings, he was disgusting.... all hung-over and majorly SNORING on the couch. Needless to say I was pissed and things deteriorated! If you and your husband truly want to try this approach, perhaps put down some ground rules. That is if you still have trust in the relationship (and he isn't lying). What else have you tried?