What Can I Do?

Thanks for your reply chaps. I will refrase my words. I no longer want to be in this marriage. I honestly want to go my own way. I am sure I sound selfish but the love my husband needs I cannot give him. I just is not within me. Every year you just hope you feel a little different but no, no different at all. I beg him to hear me but to no avail. We just plod on every day. I just want to be by mysef. The bedroom is a non event its been like that for about 5 years. I dont ache for him not even for another man. Like i said i just want to be by myself, just me and my girls. I am tired of appologising for how I feel. I know I sound so ungrateful but I just cannot help how I feel. I dont love him it would be so much easier if I did. We cannot carry on like this anymore its not fair on my husband.