Hi mommy22...sorry to hear of your setback, but as you have said, you are closer now than ever and the more you talk and work through these feelings now, the better you both will be going forward. If TOM feels the need to brag, I'm sure he's going through some sort of turmoil himself and trying to deal with it in whatever way he needs to. It is unfortunate that he is hurting you and your husband in the process, but I guess it can serve to reinforce for you that he was not that great of a guy afterall. Keep your spirits up and be proud of how strong you both are when you are working together
