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swedish · 07-21-2008, 05:16 PM

If you have been longing for his affection and attention and then find out he's been giving that to someone else, of course you are hurt and upset. I definitely think marriage counseling is the best route at this point, for you. I think your best bet is to see whether he is willing to open up and be honest with you about how he's been feeling and what he expects. I also think being that you met when you were both so young that it will be a good time to talk through things that make you feel as though you've lost yourself and what you need going forward. If you can learn to communicate with each other without fighting and understand each others needs you may begin to see that spark again.

07-21-2008, 05:16 PM	#2 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 1,391	Re: confused If you have been longing for his affection and attention and then find out he's been giving that to someone else, of course you are hurt and upset. I definitely think marriage counseling is the best route at this point, for you. I think your best bet is to see whether he is willing to open up and be honest with you about how he's been feeling and what he expects. I also think being that you met when you were both so young that it will be a good time to talk through things that make you feel as though you've lost yourself and what you need going forward. If you can learn to communicate with each other without fighting and understand each others needs you may begin to see that spark again.