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Dryden · 01-11-2010, 02:09 PM

Can you pinpoint anything that may have changed when the desire for sex dropped off? Was there any marital troubles or anything at the time.

If he's constantly tired, maybe there's some imbalance with his Testosterone levels. Perhaps suggest that he get them checked to combat his tiredness? Does he still masturbate?

Also, sit him down and discuss it. Maybe somethings stressing him out or hes harboring some feelings that aren't out in the open. Bottling these up can cause the sex drive to shut down. I find simply talking about it and letting them out in the open can be relief enough to lift my spirits.

PS. I think there would be other signs than low sex-drive if there was anything funny going on.

01-11-2010, 02:09 PM	#3 (permalink)
Dryden Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 132	Re: Why isn't my husband interested in sex? Can you pinpoint anything that may have changed when the desire for sex dropped off? Was there any marital troubles or anything at the time. If he's constantly tired, maybe there's some imbalance with his Testosterone levels. Perhaps suggest that he get them checked to combat his tiredness? Does he still masturbate? Also, sit him down and discuss it. Maybe somethings stressing him out or hes harboring some feelings that aren't out in the open. Bottling these up can cause the sex drive to shut down. I find simply talking about it and letting them out in the open can be relief enough to lift my spirits. PS. I think there would be other signs than low sex-drive if there was anything funny going on.