Originally Posted by mommy2

Yes, you need to throw your previous rule out the window. I always said that too - if he ever cheated....see ya! My H knew that too so when he told me he was having an A and I immediatly asked if we could try to save our marriage it shocked both of us! You never know what you'll do in a traumatic situation until you're in it.

There are things you'll need to work through, and perhaps counseling will help. But do know you can still make your marriage work and have a happy marriage. Sadly, sometimes a terrible thing can actually make your marriage stronger.