DawnD

You won't get over it right away honey. I am going on three months. I have a lot of stipulations with my H. He broke my heart, so now is the time where I adjust and set new boundaries and if he can't accept them, then we are done. He has done everything i have asked so far. I have all his passwords, I can monitor his cell online, calls and texts, he isn't to be with the same crowd of so called friends that he was with when he cheated, etc. But even with that I have set backs. I feel the need to check his email and phone in the morning and at night. I feel the need to talk about "us" a lot and what we both want from each other. I feel that he needs to be there to catch me anytime I have a doubt, even if only for a minute. And it is slowly getting better. But come to rules that make you guys comfortable and have him do things that reassure you it won't happen again. Best of luck honey.