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Old 07-22-2008, 12:49 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: 21year old married couple - my stubborn husband

Many more families suffer from culture shock now then ever before because of different people mixing. It can be race, religion, or even region. It takes compromise to get past those things.

Secondly, the above posts are right. You can not "fix" or "change" another person. They have to want to do it themselves or it will never happen.

Also as far as the dieting goes, most people are like that. Maybe he just needs a better diet or to use exercise in with a slight diet for the results he wants.

It honestly sounds like he is depressed and while you succeed he is stagnant because he is depressed or simply unmotivated.

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