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mrbubbles · 07-23-2008, 05:56 AM

and yes draconis, i agree, the gf is definitely the cheated one here... whether i tell her now or later, the damage is already done i think. its not meant as an excuse, but the gf is also a long distance relationship in another ccity so the chances of it blossoming into something 'serious serious', is also a long shot. unless we both decide to make more life changes to accommodate each other.

either way, i know its probably not the 'right' thing to do but my instincts are telling me to not hurt her and say anything for now, wait till i talk to my wife and see what happens after that...

even if none of this feels right or sits well with me for the time being, its better than just jumping in and spilling the bean to both parties at once and then start my descent into the cavernous abyss of hurt and pain.

i donno, maybe this is just another bad idea waiting to happen...

07-23-2008, 05:56 AM	#5 (permalink)
mrbubbles Registered User Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 7	Re: wife + girlfriend = help?! and yes draconis, i agree, the gf is definitely the cheated one here... whether i tell her now or later, the damage is already done i think. its not meant as an excuse, but the gf is also a long distance relationship in another ccity so the chances of it blossoming into something 'serious serious', is also a long shot. unless we both decide to make more life changes to accommodate each other. either way, i know its probably not the 'right' thing to do but my instincts are telling me to not hurt her and say anything for now, wait till i talk to my wife and see what happens after that... even if none of this feels right or sits well with me for the time being, its better than just jumping in and spilling the bean to both parties at once and then start my descent into the cavernous abyss of hurt and pain. i donno, maybe this is just another bad idea waiting to happen...