justean

yes you can teach yourself. i did .
if your concerned about past matters, you have to let them go.
if your matter and in the present, deal with them in a non aggressive, too forward a manner.
dont let them add up. some things are really silly.
sometimes i go to ask a stupid question, but i actually stop myself, because its just that stupid.
stupid things should not build up into n e thing large.
like i said its because we put too much into things and think to much.
pull yourself back. if you feel yourself getin het up, its simply because you dont need to be in eachothers company 24/7 to love eachother. go out, go to your room, read a book.
we are allowed feelings and emotions. but they come with the real issues. but try and communicate throughout and you can even deal with them better in the long run to.
i think you just have to find a balance that something that is trivial to you , might not be for her. but that goes vice versa too.