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sienna · 01-13-2010, 06:14 PM

Jay I really feel for you because I understand exactly how you are feeling. I agree though that maybe when you see her next week you shouldnt make it a conversation about the relationship, and instead just take her out on a date, talk about what you have been up to (without sounding needy or pushy) and then after the date drop her home. Give her a few days to think about the positive experience (hopefully) and then contact her again and ask to actually talk about things. I know how much you just want to talk and understand what she is thinking and what she wants etc but pressuring her to talk is only going to make you feel 10x worse - TRUST ME!!
Have you suggested seeing a marriage counsellor?
Are there kids involved?

01-13-2010, 06:14 PM	#3 (permalink)
sienna Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 91	Re: Trial Seperation Jay I really feel for you because I understand exactly how you are feeling. I agree though that maybe when you see her next week you shouldnt make it a conversation about the relationship, and instead just take her out on a date, talk about what you have been up to (without sounding needy or pushy) and then after the date drop her home. Give her a few days to think about the positive experience (hopefully) and then contact her again and ask to actually talk about things. I know how much you just want to talk and understand what she is thinking and what she wants etc but pressuring her to talk is only going to make you feel 10x worse - TRUST ME!! Have you suggested seeing a marriage counsellor? Are there kids involved?