morticia1217

I always heard about men not being turned on when their wives gained weight and I thought it was awful and that they should love them for themselves not what they look like. However, my husband has gained at least 75 lbs. since we have gotten married and it disgusts me to look at him. He is not active because of the weight and lets face it, the stomach is so big he cannot get into all positions. His face has dissapeared into a mound of fat. He has a lot of medical conditions that the doctors tell him would be eliminated or a whole lot better if he lost weight. I knew on our honeymoon (16 years ago) that he had a problem when he was more interested in where we were going to eat next than sex. Also he was so sweet until the honeymoon. I fell in love the man he pretended to be, not the man I found out he was after marriage. I have stayed because I just did not want to start over and the longer you stay, the harder it is to leave. We were in our early 40s and did not want another failure. I cannot believe I have spilled all this out.