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Dancing Nancie · 07-23-2008, 03:58 PM

We currently do not have joint days off, and only really have a couple hours a night to talk. The things we talk about can get to be just what we need to get done for the next day, what happened with the kids, etc... Because our communication is not all that great putting off talking about things that we don't want to is easy.

You are right that things that may seem trivial to me, may not be for her. However there should be some give and take on both sides. I should not be allowed to pry into some subjects, but she should be willing to share some on others. Finding what subjects are better left alone is something I don't know where to start.

07-23-2008, 03:58 PM	#12 (permalink)
Dancing Nancie Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 148	Re: What should be shared? We currently do not have joint days off, and only really have a couple hours a night to talk. The things we talk about can get to be just what we need to get done for the next day, what happened with the kids, etc... Because our communication is not all that great putting off talking about things that we don't want to is easy. You are right that things that may seem trivial to me, may not be for her. However there should be some give and take on both sides. I should not be allowed to pry into some subjects, but she should be willing to share some on others. Finding what subjects are better left alone is something I don't know where to start.