draconis

Well it depends alot on the guy.

For me I love roses (I use to grow them even). But not every guy will be the same.

I like it when my wife shares time with the inclusive things I do. For example my mother watches football with my dad. She choose as her team a team that came into the league when my brother was born. She isn't as into it as my father is but enough that when he is all excited about something he can talk to and share with her and she understands.

My wife and I do this back and forth. It is real cement in our marriage. I will shop with her and act like her mirror on what clothes she'd like. (I know her taste in clothes and the areas she worries about, her thighs) My wife is beautiful 5'2 and 125 after 3 kids. Most women are jealous of her figure.

But notes and letters work on a guy that likes to read or write a lot. Sometimes it is how you write too.

Does he work hard? Maybe learn massage. My wife works a physical job and goes to college both full time. There is nothing she likes more then a foot rub, or on a long day a body massage.

Do you both like religion? Do a bible trivia, and the great thing is you can make up your own questions. There is no better or funner way to learn the Bible or to want to search the Bible for questions.

Again what is it he enjoys, be a small part of that if you can. You can almost never go wrong with it.

When my wife first wanted to lose weight after child two, me being the cook I started making healthy meals for her and us and dieted together with her and encouraged her every step. We did exorcise at the house, and I got her a gym membership.

If you can shed a bit of insight I am sure I can expand a bit more.

Maybe I'll do a thesis, hmmm........

draconis