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Amplexor · 07-24-2008, 09:10 AM

Because he has given you the answer of 40% yes he wants to work on the marriage, it is not hopeless. Difficult but not hopeless. You said you are feeling like you might be falling out of love with him or are becoming numb. I think you are correct that you are trying to protect yourself. It is natural but could be dangerous. If you are the only one actively trying to salvage the marriage and lose your desire to, it will fail. I understand your feelings for I have been there. I am still trying to help my wife recover her feelings for me after more than a year. But things are so much better now then before. Have hope and faith, communicate with him, find the problems and things can get better. My best wishes for you.

07-24-2008, 09:10 AM	#2 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 896	Re: Is it hopeless? Because he has given you the answer of 40% yes he wants to work on the marriage, it is not hopeless. Difficult but not hopeless. You said you are feeling like you might be falling out of love with him or are becoming numb. I think you are correct that you are trying to protect yourself. It is natural but could be dangerous. If you are the only one actively trying to salvage the marriage and lose your desire to, it will fail. I understand your feelings for I have been there. I am still trying to help my wife recover her feelings for me after more than a year. But things are so much better now then before. Have hope and faith, communicate with him, find the problems and things can get better. My best wishes for you. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.