hi every body i am new to the forums..
and seeking advice me and wife have seperated for aweek now and i don't know what she wants i know i want to work things out but dont know if she does or not.
we have been married 7years and we hae 2 kids ( 6year old twins ) the problem was i had an addiction to porn and i felt i had to lie about for some resone. and am getting help for this and we are seeing a counseler sepretly for now to try work out are problems i have been honest and truthful abuot every thing esle and only wish i could have come to terms sooner but i couldn't and know here i am...
i know that she has lost all her trust in me and i feel ashamed for what i have done..
we are still talking and kinda seeing each other here and there but when i ask her if she wants to work things out all she can say is, I dont know..
are marriage has been throuht so much and it has not been easy about 3 1/2 years ago she had an affair and i was devistated by it and i think the only resone it work't out then is because she came to me and started crying and told me about it. and know i was online checking my e-mail and i started looking throuht her e-mail and found that she had sent a picture of her self nude to a guy that we both know..
i never realy thouht of him as a friend but she did.
but after finding it blowup and walk't out.
i am staying with my mother right now and i can't staind it.. i want to be over there working on are marriage but she is unwilling right now.
i just don't know what to do with myself while she thinks about what she wants in life.. and im lost i dont know what to and am needing some addvice any thing would probly be helpful.