justean

reading your mail, your interest seems fair. but i wouldnt look into to much. hairdressers usually take the brunt of gossip. i admit to coming home and having a pop about someone now again in work or up the farm, where my horse is. mainly because of laziness. but when i talk my hubby says sometimes to much is said about work. he doesnt know the ppl i work with and vice versa, so dont really let them be of a concern for you.
my hubby says leave work in work.
but if i ask a simple question it does get answered.
ask her simple things. what styles does she like best. if she asks why your intrique, simply say.
id just like to know what your thoughts are. and how you feel about work.
dont ask lots of questions, they simply are not needed.
then talk about what you did. i had to teach my hubby to talk with out the need to be asked how his day was. he is much better now.
if he wants to talk he will , if he cant be bothered, i dont bother either.
just ask how her day went and leave it at that.
its a shame it has gone into your sex life.
but tell her its important to you, to know how she feels , tell her how you feel.
do you have children, do you spend time together, actually suggest you need to feel you have contact with eachother so that you get out of your lull situation.
every marriage has one now and again. mine isnt perfect. but its better now than it has been for a long time.
tell her how she is making you feel. atleast then you can work on from that point. but you have to be on your own.
do you touch her, kiss her. or does she push you away