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justean · 07-24-2008, 10:08 AM

you have said your side. but what is her side to this story ( through you)
ok she has given you the open marriage.
but when was the last time she did n e thing with n e one in this open marriage.
that could give you the indication of her needs.
e.g say the last time she went with someone was 6 months ago.
then obviously its not all the time.
have her feelings changed regarding this open marriage.
does it need to continue or say goodbye to that past and move on together.
after all your wife is all you could ever ask for and more.
grass is not greener.
i think you both need to talk and re evaluate your needs from eachother. if she asks you why. and this wil help with her insecureness - tell her you ask because you dont want to share her n e more.

07-24-2008, 10:08 AM	#12 (permalink)
justean Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: south wales. uk Posts: 736	Re: wife + girlfriend = help?! you have said your side. but what is her side to this story ( through you) ok she has given you the open marriage. but when was the last time she did n e thing with n e one in this open marriage. that could give you the indication of her needs. e.g say the last time she went with someone was 6 months ago. then obviously its not all the time. have her feelings changed regarding this open marriage. does it need to continue or say goodbye to that past and move on together. after all your wife is all you could ever ask for and more. grass is not greener. i think you both need to talk and re evaluate your needs from eachother. if she asks you why. and this wil help with her insecureness - tell her you ask because you dont want to share her n e more.