Alexandra

Here's just a few thoughts I have...

Your post made me stinking angry at first, then I figured that's what you wanted, passionate reaction. Hmmmmm. So I told myself to settle down.

I agree with your first point. And I totally wish that more women got that. If they could nurture their husbands sexually (in a healthy way), their marriage would be better off. Unfortunately it's not as simple as that sometimes. Sex is a powerful thing and it's not handled well at times by both men and women.

I'll be honest. I thought hard about your spanking comment. Seriously. My conclusion is nope, I cannot say that would turn my crank or make me feel like a woman. I prefer to be cherished. Held accountable for my actions, led by a strong, intelligent man, sure. But not in that personal, intimate, physical punishment type of way. Sorry, not for me. And I'm thinking not for many women. Your wife likes to get it, you like to give it? Good for you.

Marriage is in fact a partnership, although not with "equal" partners. Each bring something different into a marriage and each need to step up to that role. But both need to be supportive and work together (as successful partners do).

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