Originally Posted by Missy

I think your letter hit him and he doesnt want to lose you but he is unsure of what to do and where to go from there. I think you are in a similar spot because he is doing things he hasnt done and that makes you feel good, but you both are still not all the way on the same page. You never discussed the letter and never discussed what would make you happy and what would make him happy. What are the things you love about him, what are the things he loves about you. Start there and tell him why you love him and appreciate him. There is a tremendously good book that I have been reading called the 5 languages of love and it is scary how true those statements are. You can do this, you both have made a baby step but need a little help to get the rest of the steps to take to get back to happiness!