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stillINshock · 01-16-2010, 10:10 PM

I agree. If she's not lying - she should have nothing to hide. Based on her actions she needs to prove some things to you. How about you surprise her with a 20 year anniversary marriage retreat. Serious. You guys need some counseling. Something is about to get worse before it can get better.

I kicked my H off FB. He avoided answering whether he was married when asked by 'old classmates', and led ladies to believe he'd "love to meet up next time I'm in town" which apparently was "just an expression" he said. No. Wrong. FB gone. She's not being honest with you about something. Deal now - or the pain will be even greater later. My reco - drop your ego and tell her she is hurting you. If she responds in a way that wants to hurt you MORE - even when you are already showing pain, then you'll have a very powerful answer. And at least you can say to yourself that you really tried.
Good luck.

01-16-2010, 10:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
stillINshock Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 313	Re: Is my marriage doomed? I agree. If she's not lying - she should have nothing to hide. Based on her actions she needs to prove some things to you. How about you surprise her with a 20 year anniversary marriage retreat. Serious. You guys need some counseling. Something is about to get worse before it can get better. I kicked my H off FB. He avoided answering whether he was married when asked by 'old classmates', and led ladies to believe he'd "love to meet up next time I'm in town" which apparently was "just an expression" he said. No. Wrong. FB gone. She's not being honest with you about something. Deal now - or the pain will be even greater later. My reco - drop your ego and tell her she is hurting you. If she responds in a way that wants to hurt you MORE - even when you are already showing pain, then you'll have a very powerful answer. And at least you can say to yourself that you really tried. Good luck.