Originally Posted by Amplexor

Great list of things you are already doing. Date night, regular lunch….. I think it wise to not push conversations on the relationship. Something my wife and I did early and it gave us breathing room. If one or the other did something that bothered us by all means we had a talk but rehashing the same stuff was just counter productive for us. Giving him some space is a good idea. If he needs that and you dote on him it will drive him further away. A couple of hobbies/interests ideas

My wife and I took ball room dancing lessons for about 4 months. It was great and we had a wonderful time. Just so you know it is likely you will dance with many partners during the lessons and not much with each other. My wife and had weekly practices and we still do on occasion. That is where you can build a little intimacy and really learn how to move as a couple on the dance floor.

Second, find a couple of recipes you like and go to the market together to buy the ingredients for a special meal. Make it a meal that looks good but might be challenge to make. Cook it together and enjoy a bottle of wine and the evening together. It can be a very nice way to spend an evening.

Good luck.