Originally Posted by cyp10
he had no reason to betray me other than the fact that he had access to sex on a plate.
Men are absolutely biologically programmed to have sex in this situation. There is also social pressure to do so as well. The man that fails to follow through is going to be mercilessly mocked forever by his male friends unless he rolls with a hard core religious group. And I do mean mocked forever
. Also you would likely be targeted by his friends for being hit on, because he'd have communicated that he wasn't really much of a man. See how that works?
Also would you really have any sexual attraction to a man that could turn down sex on a plate? Turning down free sex is a huge weakness signal to be honest. The whole crying thing after he did it and having to get drunk to tell you and months of guilt are also bad signs. He's also got his tail between his legs in the spare bedroom. Oy.
Honestly if I was him I'd just say "look I didn't go looking for it, but if it falls in my lap naked, realistically I'm just going to not help myself. I'm a sexy guy, this is who I am and this is also why you like me".
I dunno - just keep naked women from jumping in his lap. He seems like an okay guy, but perhaps a little too nice.
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